A true foe is better than a false friend. A foe never pushes you into any thing uncomfortable. It's only you that burn the furance so hot and then singe yourself. if you maintain your cool, then none can bother you. But false friends are the ones who play with your emotions. They make you feel that you are at a loss if you don't accept what they said and emotionally blackmail you to do things for them. They make us feel like we are so dependent on them and if we distance them, we will be amputated permanently. They are admist us, we have to just notice. But funnily, recognizing them is not easy. Like in films, these won't behave at their worst, or say nasty things. They say good things first and will do anything for you. Soon you will be dependening on them for everything. You're trapped. Even when we realize finally that we are possessed by them, we will not be able to live without them or with them. we are trapped. By the time we recover, we will be impaired in terms of confidence. But this person whom I know doesn't do this intentionally, well, at least I think. She controls others in some way and everyone tend to grow submissive, mostly out of the cultivated manners, and let her rule over. But when does she know that people don't genuinely like to spend time with her? and what happens when she comes to know it?
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